The word Stammtisch is German. A Stammtisch is both a group of people who meet regularly in a bar or restaurant and the large table around which they gather. Stammtisch tables are reserved for regular customers, who hold friendly get-togethers there.
There are various types of Stammtisch groups. People may gather simply to drink together or to discuss specific topics such as philosophy or politics.
There is usually an elaborate sign on the table saying “Stammtisch”, reserving it for regulars.
We had to whisper, as after all, this was a library, but we got to talking about how, although many people used the RSA library, bar, and other facilities, there was no easy way to meet people and strike up a conversation if you were there on your own.
I talked about some of my conference ideas, such as wearing a badge that said “talk to me” or even creating special tables where people could sit with the expectation of talking to strangers. And we discussed what a great idea it would be if the RSA had something like this.
It was then that one of my new acquaintances told me about the German concept of Stammtisch.
I had never heard about it before, but when he explained the concept, I immediately fell in love with the idea. A Stammtisch is a table in a pub or restaurant reserved for regular customers or alternatively outside of Germany a table reserved for people who would like to meet to practice their German.
I liked the idea of bending the concept a little further and creating tables in bars, cafes, and large conferences, etc, where people can sit if they wish to have conversations with strangers. Many people need a little bit of an excuse to start a conversation, and this would provide it, but maybe it needs an alternative label—maybe a conversation table.
That was in 2007, when I talked to several people at the RSA about the idea, but nothing came of it. So imagine my delight today, in 2018, when I see they have created a conversation table at their new Rawthmells coffeehouse.

Some things take time.
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Resources
- Wikipedia: Stammtisch
- Article: Stammtisch
- Blog post: Stammtisch sharpens German language skills
- Website: The Chatty Cafe Scheme
- Press Release: Costa Coffee Rolls Out ‘Chatty Café’ Scheme Nationwide To Get The Nation Talking
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