People mistakenly assume that their thinking is done by their head; it is actually done by the heart which first dictates the conclusion, then commands the head to provide the reasoning that will defend it.
Credit: Anthony de Mello
Comment: This quote reminds us that reasoning often serves to defend conclusions already shaped by the heart. Conversational Leadership invites us to question not just what we think, but why we think it.
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Conversational Leadership Workshop
In-person, 7–11 September 2026, Warbrook House, Hampshire, UK
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