Can AI help us think more deeply, or does it sometimes spare us the thinking through which we learn? In this Knowledge Café, we will explore cognitive offloading, our experiences of thinking with AI, and what it means for conversation and collective thinking.
Knowledge Café
Are we offloading our thinking to AI?
Date: Tuesday, 3rd November 2026
Time: 14:00 to 15:30 GMT (London time)
Host/Speaker: David Gurteen and John Hovell
Location: Online Zoom Event
Price: Free
Introduction
This event is part of a series of online Knowledge Cafés on Conversational Leadership, held on Zoom. Each Café explores a theme drawn from my online blook on Conversational Leadership.
Before each Café, I may invite you to read one or more related posts from the blook to help you prepare for the conversation. If you’re new to the Knowledge Café concept, please note that this is a participatory event, not a webinar.
Theme: Are We Offloading Our Thinking to AI?
In recent Knowledge Cafés, we have explored what happens when AI joins a conversation and how we might think with it. This time, I would like to ask a more uncomfortable question: what happens when we let AI do some of our thinking for us?
Cognitive offloading means using something outside our minds to reduce the effort of remembering or working something out. We have always done this. We write notes, use calculators and ask other people for help. AI gives us another way to offload, but one that can produce an answer, an argument or a polished piece of writing in seconds.
That can be useful. AI may help us get started, see possibilities we had missed or challenge an idea. It can make room for deeper thinking, especially when we remain engaged with its responses and question them.
But there is another possibility. If we turn to AI before struggling with a question ourselves, might we lose something in the process? We may accept an answer without understanding it, mistake a fluent explanation for a sound one, or become less willing to sit with uncertainty. The difficulty is that the thinking we avoid may be the very thinking through which we learn.
The distinction is not always clear. Asking AI to draft an argument might help us examine it more closely. It might also spare us the work of forming one. Much depends on how we use it, what we do with its response and whether we can still explain our own thinking afterwards.
This matters for Conversational Leadership. Thinking together requires more than bringing answers to a conversation. It asks us to listen, question, reconsider and make sense of things with others. Could AI strengthen that process? Could it weaken it if people arrive with ready-made views they have barely examined?
As always, this will be a Knowledge Café rather than a webinar. There will be no lengthy presentations or experts providing answers. We will explore the question together, drawing on our own experiences of thinking with AI, and sometimes letting it think for us.
The question for our conversation will be: Are we offloading our thinking to AI, and when does that help or hinder us?
John and I will discuss the Café’s theme and pose a question to initiate the conversation. We will also ask ChatGPT to say a few words. Then, in Café style, we will divide into small groups for three rounds of discussion, followed by a whole-group conversation.
#cognitive-offloading-summaryCafé Summary
Café SummaryI asked Zoom to record the transcript of this Café and then asked ChatGPT to summarise it. The summary is below.
219 people from 40 countries registered for the Cafe, but only around 80 actually participated.
Knowledge Café: Are We Offloading Our Thinking to AI?
The growing use of artificial intelligence raises an important question: are we becoming better thinkers through our interactions with AI, or are we gradually surrendering some of our capacity to think for ourselves? AI can help us explore ideas, challenge assumptions and make sense of complex issues. But it can also provide answers so readily that we may lose the incentive to question, struggle and reflect.
This was the subject of the online Gurteen Knowledge Café held on 3 November 2026, hosted by David Gurteen and John Hovell, with around 80 participants joining from around the world. Two conversational AIs, Chatty and Spruce, also took part.
Although the Café was advertised under the title “Are We Offloading Our Thinking to AI?”, the question posed to participants was deliberately broader:
When we think with AI, what do we gain and what might we lose?
The conversation moved well beyond cognitive offloading to explore education, critical thinking, human judgment, resilience, relationships and the nature of thinking itself.
Offloading is nothing new
Human beings have always offloaded aspects of their physical and mental activity to other people and technologies. Calculators have largely replaced mental arithmetic, writing allows us to store information without remembering everything, and computers perform tasks that once demanded considerable human effort.
But AI may be different. Unlike a calculator, it can help formulate questions, develop arguments, evaluate possibilities and suggest conclusions. These are activities traditionally regarded as central to human reasoning.
An important distinction emerged between asking AI to think for us and engaging with it as part of our own thinking. We can accept its answers without question, or we can challenge them, explore alternatives and develop our understanding through dialogue. In the latter case, perhaps we are not so much offloading our thinking as extending it.
Thinking together
The conversation highlighted the social nature of human thinking. We are not always particularly good at reasoning alone. Our assumptions, experiences and biases can limit our perspectives, while conversation with others can expose blind spots and open up new possibilities.
This relates to the idea of interthinking, where thinking emerges through interaction rather than taking place entirely within separate individuals. Bringing AI into this process raises the possibility of new forms of collective thinking.
However, this depends on the quality of the interaction. If AI is too agreeable, too quick to provide answers or too willing to reinforce our assumptions, it may undermine the challenge and disagreement that make thinking together valuable.
The value of intellectual struggle
A recurring concern was that AI might remove some of the productive difficulty involved in thinking and learning. Understanding often develops through uncertainty, frustration, mistakes and the effort of working through problems.
If AI continually provides quick, plausible answers, we may become increasingly effective at obtaining results while becoming less practised at reasoning for ourselves.
But not all difficulty is valuable. Technologies have always relieved us of unnecessary effort, freeing us to concentrate on other things. The question is not whether AI makes thinking easier, but which intellectual struggles are worth preserving and which we can safely leave behind.
Education, resilience and risk
Much of the discussion turned towards education and younger generations. Some participants worried that easy access to AI might weaken reading, reasoning and problem-solving abilities, while others challenged the assumption that previous generations were necessarily better thinkers.
The conversation also questioned whether schools have ever been particularly successful at developing critical thinking. Perhaps education needs to focus less on producing correct answers and more on developing curiosity, judgment and the willingness to question.
Resilience and risk-taking were closely related concerns. Mistakes and setbacks can be important sources of learning, yet AI may make it increasingly easy to avoid difficulty. The analogy of learning long division before using a calculator illustrated the importance of understanding something before relying entirely on technology.
At the same time, AI might give people greater confidence to explore unfamiliar ideas and take risks they would otherwise avoid. Whether it encourages dependency or greater independence may depend on how it is used.
Is becoming smarter what matters most?
One particularly interesting contribution challenged the assumption that becoming more intelligent should be our primary goal. Being human involves more than improving our cognitive abilities. Relationships, feelings, connection and shared experiences may matter just as much, if not more.
If AI can undertake increasingly sophisticated intellectual work, perhaps it offers an opportunity to reconsider our emphasis on intelligence, achievement and efficiency.
Rather than continually asking how AI can make us smarter, we might ask how it can help us live better and relate more meaningfully to one another.
This also raised questions about the nature of human thinking. Much of our mental activity takes place outside conscious awareness. Intuition, experience, emotion and unconscious processes contribute to judgment and creativity in ways we do not fully understand.
AI may produce sophisticated analyses and plausible conclusions, but that does not mean it thinks as humans do. Similar results do not necessarily imply similar processes.
AI as a conversational partner
Chatty and Spruce added another dimension to the Café. Both AIs contributed to the opening and closing conversations, helping articulate distinctions, connect ideas and introduce questions.
However, their tendency to agree with human participants became apparent. Even when encouraged to disagree, they often acknowledged and accommodated the views being expressed rather than challenging them directly.
When pressed, one AI questioned whether greater intellectual struggle and resilience were always desirable. Perhaps the real issue was deciding which difficulties matter and which can be removed.
It also challenged the assumption that taking responsibility for our thinking necessarily means thinking independently. Human thinking has always been social and dependent on other people and tools.
This suggested an important distinction: the issue may not be whether we think alone or with AI, but whether we remain actively engaged in our thinking or surrender responsibility for it.
What do we need to unlearn?
Towards the end, the conversation shifted from what younger generations need to learn to what older generations may need to unlearn.
After all, the educational systems and social expectations being questioned were largely created by previous generations. Perhaps the challenge is not simply to prepare young people to use AI responsibly, but to reconsider some of our own assumptions about intelligence, learning, achievement and responsibility.
This shifted the discussion away from treating AI primarily as a problem for younger people towards recognising a shared responsibility for how it is adopted.
Closing reflections
The Café began with a concern about whether AI might diminish our capacity to think. It ended with a broader question about the kind of thinking, learning and human relationships we wish to preserve and develop.
The conversation itself illustrated the value of thinking together. Participants challenged assumptions, disagreed, explored unexpected connections and moved well beyond the original question. No one tried to reach consensus, and several important questions remained unresolved.
AI can relieve us of intellectual effort, but whether that represents a gain or a loss depends on what we do with the freedom it creates. We may become passive consumers of increasingly sophisticated answers, or we may use AI to question our assumptions, explore new possibilities and deepen our understanding.
Perhaps the greatest danger is not offloading some of our thinking to AI, but gradually relinquishing responsibility for how we think.
How can we engage with AI in ways that extend our thinking without diminishing our humanity?
Note: This summary is based on the Zoom transcript. The breakout-room conversations themselves were not captured in the main transcript, so the themes reflect the opening and whole-group discussions, rather than everything explored in the smaller groups.
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