The trouble with saying “I have an open mind” in response to a question on an issue is that it can sound admirable, as it hints at flexibility and a willingness to learn. But often, it becomes a way to avoid real conversation. It does not say what we believe, what we prefer, or how we are currently thinking. Trying to sound neutral sidesteps the effort of sharing our thoughts.
Offering a tentative view is much more helpful in a thoughtful discussion. We could say, “I’m leaning toward this interpretation,” or “At the moment, I’m inclined to think this way.” Then add, “But I have an open mind.” This shows we are open to new ideas, while also stating our position.
Having an open mind is good. So is clarity. We should say what we think, even if we are unsure.
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